Written by: John R. Cionca, Ph.D.
Some time ago an east coast pastor asked his board if he were still the right person to lead their flock. He had been serving the congregation for 19 years, but they’d been struggling over the past three years. The board went away on a two-day retreat to pray for their minister and the church. They returned and informed the pastor that they sensed the Spirit was saying that it was time for new leadership in the church. On the surface he handled the news well, but internally he was shocked. At age 61 he questioned: “What will I do; where will I go?”
Over the following months all the stages of grief and loss were experienced by pastor and spouse. And while intellectually he recognized the need to move on, emotionally he, and especially his wife, felt abandoned. Nevertheless, while some pastoral tenures end in an ugly fashion, both church and minister handled this exit with class. An evening for celebration, a card shower (with gifts encouraged) and a more than generous transitions gift (severance package) were provided. The board even provided several months of professional counseling and career guidance.
A consultant friend of mine believes “the average pastor stays two years too long.” By the time the minister figures out that he or she has lost their effectiveness, a turn-around under their leadership is unlikely. I remember sitting in the living room with a clergy couple hearing the minister lament: “John, I don’t know what I can do the next five years that I haven’t tried the past five years.” This minister followed a founding pastor who had loved and served that congregation for twenty-five years—and had remained in the congregation (a topic for another article). Several hundred people had left the church under this new pastor’s leadership. My response to his confession was: “Ted, perhaps you need the release the church to someone else who may be able to move it forward.” Unfortunately, unlike the story above, this pastor left grudgingly, and years later still has a bitter spirit over his forced exit.
On a more positive note let me relate the story of another pastor who seems to transition at just the right time. He served for fifteen years in New England, then 15 years in the mid-west. Even though his ministry was flourishing in a suburb of Chicago, at age 52 he realized that he either had to remain at his present church until retirement, or he had to transition now. He figured: “I can put in 15 years in another church if I move now, but if I wait a few more years, the window may close. No one is looking for a 55+ year senior pastor.” He accepted a call from a church in California, and is enjoying another fruitful season of service. Perhaps, not just in comedy, but also in ministry, “timing is everything!”
Sometimes I think we make the Christian life overly mystical. Sure, the Bible speaks of mystery, but it also illustrates simplicity. Although it affirms “the Lord determines [a person’s] steps” (Proverbs 16:9 TNIV), it also assumes a sound decision-making process. Jesus said, “For which of you, intending to build a tower does not first sit down and estimate the cost, to see whether he has enough to complete it? . . . Or what king going out to wage war against another king, will not sit down and consider first whether he is able with 10,000 to oppose the one who comes against him with 20,000? (Luke 14:28, 31 NRSV).
Just as rationality is part of the Imago Dei, making choices is as naturally human as breathing. People (including ministers) make decisions about what to wear, what type of car to drive, where to live and with whom to spend time. Among the weightiest decisions a pastor must make is whether to seek a new place of ministry.
So let me share with you twenty signals worth consideration by pastors who are wrestling with “should I stay or should I leave?” The more items in the “Red Light” category, the more reason to remain in one’s present congregation. The more responses cluster in the “Green Light” category, the more evidence a change may be in order. Where a pastor places himself or herself, and how much weight each factor is given, will shed light on the wisdom of a transition. None of the factors are a mandate to move. But they can bring insight into what is happening within the church and the pastor. They can serve as discussion points for good decision-making.
|RED LIGHT||GREEN LIGHT|
|CONGREGATIONAL SIGNALS||Congregational Hunger
Inadequate Lay Leadership
Vibrance and Growth
Abundant Trained Leadership
Stagnation and Decline
Shortage of Finances
|PERSONAL SIGNALS||Authenticity Accepted
Good Giftedness Match
Enthusiasm for the Task
More Dreams and Visions
Good Opportunity for Impact
Family Happy and Growing
Poor Giftedness Match
Restlessness or Withdrawal
Job Mundane or Overwhelming
Silence or Nightmares
Limited Opportunity for Impact
Family Distressed and Stifled
|PASTOR/PEOPLE SIGNALS||Good Socio-Cultural Fit
Tenure Less than Six Years
Compatibility with Staff
High Integrity and Credibility
Unity and Encouragement
Annual Evaluation Affirms Ministry
Advisors Confirm Ministry
|Poor Socio-Cultural Fit
Tenure More than Six Years
Poor Staff or Key Relationships
Low Integrity and Credibility
Resistance and Conflict
Board Requests Major Changes
Advisors Suggest a Change
I wish I had time to unpack these signals for you, and I wish we had space to detail the scriptures that support them and the clergy examples that illustrate them. But for now, my hope is that pastors perform their due diligence in transitions. Yes, God sovereignly leads, but he also holds us accountable for decisions. The Apostle Paul acknowledged, “I labor, with his energy” (Colossians 1:29). So let’s serve with all our hearts, in the harvest fields that are whitest for the wiring and resources that God has specifically entrusted to each of us.
Dr. John Cionca, who is a retired professor of ministry leadership at Bethel Seminary, and currently serves as the Executive Director of Ministry Transitions. He wrote this article on behalf of LeaderWise based upon his work with ministry leaders. You can read more in his book Before You Move: A Guide to Making Transitions in Ministry.
For additional information about programs, workshops, and retreats related to pastoral transitions, please contact Dr. Mark Sundby at 651-636-5120 or firstname.lastname@example.org.